How to Be Your Own Biggest Supporter

May 10, 2023

Believe in yourself and be confident in your decisions!

Doubt and uncertainty are common companions on our life’s journey. It’s natural to second-guess our choices and worry about outcomes. However, cultivating self-belief and confidence in our decisions isn't just beneficial; it's crucial for success.

Back in 2010, we took a significant leap of faith. With no prior experience in running a business and no guarantees of success, we decided to start our own venture in Calgary, AB. That first year, we earned only $550. Despite this modest beginning, we didn't let setbacks deter us. Instead, we learned to trust God in our journey and keep pushing forward.

Here are some practical tips that have bolstered my confidence over the years:

1. Reflect Thoughtfully: Before making any decision, I take time to reflect. I consider the pros and cons and weigh the risks. This process doesn’t just prepare me to make a decision—it builds the confidence to stand by it.

2. Seek Trusted Advice: I regularly consult with trusted peers and mentors. Their insights are invaluable, helping me see different perspectives and confirming or challenging my thinking.

3. Affirm Your Capabilities: Regularly remind yourself of your past successes and learned skills. Self-affirmation is powerful and reinforces the belief that you are capable of making and executing good decisions.

4. Act Decisively: Once you’ve made a decision, act on it without delay. Hesitation can breed doubt. Action, however, reinforces your ability to commit and follow through.

Developing self-belief and decision-making confidence is a dynamic, ongoing process. It requires patience, practice, and persistence. But the rewards—increased resilience, more robust achievements, and personal growth—are well worth the effort.

Keep Moving Forward and Trust the Process!

By applying these strategies, you can navigate life's uncertainties with greater assurance and turn potential challenges into opportunities for growth.